i’m sorry. i know that i’m one of those people who are probably really unfair to stiles because of reasons. i don’t think i’ve done anything particularly gross wrt him (and if i have i’m sorry)—but i’m going to try to keep this in mind for future.
i don’t mind, from you? mostly because when it’s you i have more context to build upon—we’ve talked about ideas of friendships and so i have a better idea of where you’re coming from when you’re talking about the scott&stiles dynamic. and as far as i can remember you haven’t done anything gross in that regard.
he’s—i’m mostly neutral on him, honestly. i like that he’s a neurodivergent (i think that is the term? is that only the term for autism? someone pls correct if i am using it wrong) character that isn’t treated like shit for it and i can relate to that to an extent, and think he has some great lines—while also acknowledging that i don’t like how he treats most people, esp lydia. so i don’t mind people being critical of him, certainly, and i know a lot of that is a response to frustration with stans
i just dislike the sentiment that i’m supposed to pick a side and hate the other side i suppose
i love scott and scott loves him
so i’m not signing up to hate him
YES and it’s like… ppl are allowed to have different dynamics??? stiles isn’t an awful abuser to poor defenseless scott i am jsut. endlessly furstrated. bleh.